by Laura Hill Timpanaro
Yesterday my daughter came home from school glum. She is a good student and very social so I was surprised by the long face. When I questioned her she pulled out her math test. “I bombed my test,” she said, handing it to me.
Yesterday my daughter came home from school glum. She is a good student and very social so I was surprised by the long face. When I questioned her she pulled out her math test. “I bombed my test,” she said, handing it to me.
He failed all the time, but he never gave up.
When my daughters and I write our Great Story World
Mix-Up books it can take anywhere from a few days to six months to pen a
manuscript. Before that we spend
weeks in group brainstorming sessions coming up with story arcs. Many of the plot lines we develop are
discarded, not because the ideas are bad, they just weren’t the best ones to
move the story forward.
Our bad mistakes don’t end there. I do a whole program on how we turn bad
art into beautiful illustrations, reworking and rethinking each one until we
feel a picture is just right. Once
we’ve got the story and the pictures together we still aren’t done because our
editor hands us revisions that can be as simple as spelling errors or more
extensive like suggestions on whole passages. I have gone through manuscripts and scrapped entire chapters
after putting them aside for a few months to gain perspective.
When I tell this to students they are really surprised.
I think students have a misconception that everything they
do has to be successful. I’ve often wondered if this is due to the culture of
instant gratification and overnight celebrity we live in, or if there is
something more. The focus on high
stakes testing and measured learning has its place but maybe we are hampering a
higher thought process that could lead students to even greater success.
If you aren’t willing to fail you will probably never succeed.

Today, educators are not just pillars of knowledge; they
are leaders in teaching thought and building confidence so students can blow us
away with their ideas. After my
daughter’s failure we talked and I realized she bombed the test because she
didn’t ask for help, she was afraid not understanding would be perceived as
failure. I discussed this with her
teacher and on the next test she was the only one to get 100% right. Not because she was smarter, but
because her teacher had build up her confidence and opened a path to dialogue
that was unthreatening.